Happy Heavenly Birthday, my sweet baby girl, Emily. Even though today you would be a 21-year-old young woman, you will forever be my “baby girl.” This time of year has always been incredibly bittersweet for me. Over the years, I’ve searched for another word to capture my feelings, but “bittersweet” remains the only one that truly expresses the deep mix of love, longing, and gratitude in my heart. I miss you more than words can ever convey, but I find immense peace knowing that you are with our Lord…and that one day, we will be reunited for all of eternity.
I remember that Friday morning in 2006 so vividly. Your mother and I made the difficult decision to admit you to the hospital for what was supposed to be your final round of chemotherapy. By God’s grace, we had received the miraculous news we had prayed for…the tumor had completely disappeared. This last treatment was meant to ensure that no residual cancer cells remained, so you could be discharged and come home, cancer-free. But instead of celebrating your recovery as a family that Sunday, you went home to be with the Lord just three days later, the victim of a tragic and preventable medication error.
In my devastation, I remember crying out, Why, God? I don’t understand. You just cured her, and now You’re taking her? But now, with time and faith, I see what I couldn’t comprehend back then…God always has the perfect plan, even when we can’t even begin to see it. As He promises in Jeremiah 29:11: “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a future and a hope.”
From the deepest sorrow, God has brought so much purpose. Emily, your short time on this earth was not in vain. I am humbled and grateful that so many incredible caregivers and clinicians now refer to you as the “Gerber Baby” of patient and medication safety. Your story…the simple, human side of healthcare that we can all relate to…has touched hearts around the world, helping to prevent errors and save countless lives. Your legacy continues to live on in the hearts and minds of people around the world, truly making an impact, reminding us that we all receive healthcare at some point, as do our loved ones, and that safety in medicine is not just a goal, but a responsibility.
As your daddy, I am eternally grateful for the two beautiful years God gave me with you.
Happy Birthday, sweetheart. I love you always.
Daddy

Last Updated: May 3, 2025 by ejfadmin
EJF at Touro University’s College of Pharmacy in NYC for their Dean’s Hour Lecture
The week before last, I had the privilege of spending a few days in New York City to speak at a truly impactful Medication Safety Symposium hosted by Touro University’s College of Pharmacy. The following day, I was honored to join my friend Dr. Emily Messing, PharmD, BCPS, CPPS, a Touro alum and Medication Safety Officer at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute in Boston, for a Dean’s Hour lecture with a remarkable group of pharmacy students pursuing their doctorates.
It was also a very special moment to finally meet Azhar Hussain in person, one of the Emily Jerry Foundation’s five distinguished Medication Safety Scholars. Azhar attended the session and will graduate our program in June at the ASHP Pharmacy Futures Meeting in Charlotte, North Carolina.
When I founded the Emily Jerry Foundation more than 16 years ago, I never wanted to be someone who simply told a heartbreaking story about my daughter and then walked away. Especially not when it comes to the clinician caregivers, I deeply respect…those who always lead with empathy, compassion, and a relentless commitment to improving the quality of life for patients facing chronic disease. Over the years, I’ve learned that many of these professionals entered healthcare out of a genuine love for science and a sincere desire to save lives and improve the outcomes for the patients they are so dedicated to serving.
That’s why, from the very beginning, the Foundation’s mission and my advocacy have been rooted in being part of the solution, working to prevent the kinds of tragic, preventable medication errors that took Emily’s life. My goal has always been to help stop these errors before they happen…ultimately saving countless lives in the process.
Opportunities like the recent one’s at Touro University continue to inspire me. These students aren’t just mastering the complexities of lifesaving medications, they’re stepping into their roles as the next generation of healthcare leaders. They’re the ones who will carry the torch forward, with a deep and unwavering commitment to patient safety and error prevention across every area of care.
A heartfelt thank you to my friend Dr. Batoul Senhaji-Tomza, PharmD, MPH for making all this possible and for organizing such meaningful events. I’m truly excited to continue growing the partnership between Touro University College of Pharmacy and the Emily Jerry Foundation.
Photo credit; Rebecca L. Rosen